It's official. I'm going to Burning Man!!

http://www.youngandfictitious.com/2013/03/23/burning-man-and-the-principled-life/

A few random updates:

Last weekend was great. Going out with Michelle these past few months has been really great, and I'm already mourning her leaving. I'm really not sure what I'm going to do when she's gone. It's always us, and it seems like a different group of people every time, which I've been enjoying. Friday night I met a few new people and had a ton of ridiculous fun dancing with Michelle.. until we lost each other haha. (Dear McFaddens, we probably won't be seeing you for a while, but you've been great, really.)

Saturday Michelle, James, Spirko and I drove down to Vinko's place in RI. Another group other Boston kids were there and we met a ton of his friends from home, all of which were really cool. He has a beautiful house right next to a lake in Charlestown. We mostly played drinking games all day, including sloshball, dizzy bat, flip cup, and ended the night playing card games inside. Everyone kept complaining about how hot it was and then we got a ton of mosquito bites, and I have to say I felt a bit like I was back in Vietnam. I can't even complain here because I know it's not as bad as what I lived through!! Anyway, we all had a really fun time and a nice relaxing day on Sunday once we got back. Two more weekends left... I don't want summer to end.

Work is going well. Still don't mind getting up in the morning and getting ready for a day in the office. Still can't find anything to complain about. Still generally love my life. My boss is out this week so it has been nice to get stuff done without other things piling up, and I've set up a few meetings for myself to try and figure some of this budget stuff out. Not entirely trained for all of this... but it'll work out.

Yesterday Marisa and I saw Julie & Julia. Maybe my new favorite movie. It was a feel good movie, the kind that inspires you to buy a Julia Childs cookbook and cook through it yourself (anyone wants to get me a present- I'm completely serious about this.) A part of the movie that I appreciated was that the two women had husbands that completely loved them and supported them no matter how outlandish they (or their ideas) were. We need more of this type of inspiration! I'm so sick of seeing movies (500 Days of Summer) where people just bitch and moan about relationships. It's refreshing to see a change of pace. And this movie was about love in so many other ways too; love for finding a passion in your life (cooking, in this case) and love of yourself. I'm no movie reviewer, but two thumbs up from me. (Although definitely a chick flick, for anyone interested.)

Starting to read a lot more. Since I've been back my collection of books has greatly increased - I really missed being able to buy books. But I haven't read any of them - I just keep getting new ones. I've also started quite a few without finishing. I feel like this has a lot to do with my on the go lifestlye I've had so far - semi living in six different places, always sleeping somewhere else and still living out of suitcases. I'm so ready to move into my new apartment and get settled and get going on these books. I'm currently reading a book my friend Christine lent me called American Shaolin by Mathew Polly. It's the story of a guy who dropped out of Princeton and just up and went to China to live with the Shaolin Monks for two years and study Kung Fu. I know neither one of those things appear to interest me on the outside, but I like it for a lot of reasons. I enjoy his conversations with others in Mandarin... although I didn't speak Vietnamese, a lot of situations he puts himself in are incredibly relatable, and it's nice to remember those moments, regardless of how annoying they were. I also don't know much about Chinese culture and he talks about that a lot. I'm surprised at how many things are similar to Vietnamese. I just read about how the men are overly affectionate (in a friendship way) with each other in public.. holding hands, hand on shoulder, etc. Then he noticed the females are the same way with each other. And concluded that it is because there is no PDA between the sexes (that's strictly taboo... although I think more and more and younger generations in Vietnam are finding ways around that) so they become affectionate with their friends in public as a way to show some sort of emotion, and i have to agree. Anyway, I'm enjoying it so far!

That's all for now. Tomorrow I'm shipping off to NYC! It will be my first time there since I've been back, and I'm so excited. Going to visit some friends and have a good old nyc night out. Then Friday I'll be home for our annual OG Crew Ball.. basically a big party celebrating our friendship. (Douglas, you will be incredibly missed!) I'm hoping the weather holds out because it looks like thunderstorms only for the three days I'll be home. Cross my fingers for beach weather!!

Side note, my camera is broken. Yes, it's the one I got for my birthday, two months ago, after loosing my last one in Hong Kong. I have the worst luck and I'm praying for a miracle because I really want it for this weekend. (and publicly posting this in case anyone reading can perform a miracle...)

Hope you're all enjoying the heat, now you know (almost) how I felt all year! :-)